https://casey-valentine.com/blog daily 0.75 2026-08-04 https://casey-valentine.com/blog/have-your-cake-and-eat-it-toonbsp monthly 0.5 2026-08-03 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/678dcdb8713c1127473be150/7b594cca-1f2b-4712-a8ad-31cb2b1089c4/IMG_1224.jpg Blog - Have Your Cake, and Eat It Too: The Roles of Porn, Fantasy, and Lived Experience in BDSM  - Make it stand out Rubbing my hands with glee in front of the toy wall at a shared space in Florida. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/678dcdb8713c1127473be150/1783879795717-GSNIVBWMNJU0U6JT0LQD/IMG_1222.jpeg Blog - Have Your Cake, and Eat It Too: The Roles of Porn, Fantasy, and Lived Experience in BDSM  - Cover from “Bondage Fairies, Fairie Fetish,” Issue 4 (Eros, 1998) https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/678dcdb8713c1127473be150/1783879797512-T4QL594LMBK59EP7LUNH/IMG_1219.jpeg Blog - Have Your Cake, and Eat It Too: The Roles of Porn, Fantasy, and Lived Experience in BDSM  - My favorite girls! 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Think I had inspiration? https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/678dcdb8713c1127473be150/594e0bbe-9dca-4720-bede-233fc224b296/P1988684.jpeg Blog - Have Your Cake, and Eat It Too: The Roles of Porn, Fantasy, and Lived Experience in BDSM  - Make it stand out What are the symbols in this image? Why does it feel the way it feels? How would you treat me in this costume, vs the clothes I’m wearing in the image at the top of the page? https://casey-valentine.com/blog/why-sacred-intimacy monthly 0.5 2026-03-29 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/678dcdb8713c1127473be150/618b8c2a-12e7-4f4c-aac4-7f98598e5dd9/E98379B0-FF60-4D5F-A183-EAE447C941EC.png Blog - What is Sacred Intimacy? 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Notice the awkward tension. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/678dcdb8713c1127473be150/1763587260432-T9J0AP4DAUALMY89ZU7H/IMG_1775.jpeg Blog - How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic The color white was an important component in all of his imagery. Realism, too, was something he sought crafting these images. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/678dcdb8713c1127473be150/1763587288689-W0ET1WCBRY5ASG9FV0QG/IMG_1770.jpeg Blog - How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic Another sideline ritual. 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I like wielding emotional power. I like watching someone melt under my gaze. I like knowing I could ruin them with a word (I won’t—but the fact that I could? Delicious). That’s not entirely altruistic. It’s shadow work. It’s the daughter of an emotionally distant mother reenacting old scripts with better costumes. I wish I wasn’t an emotional sadomasochist. I wish I could do this work without that edge. 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